tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7102244124088980030.post2230774948694522345..comments2011-01-03T16:03:35.984-08:00Comments on Shooting For The Stars: I Never UnderstoodSapphire Mommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08292968192284906115noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7102244124088980030.post-91171869813523986222008-10-02T18:57:00.000-07:002008-10-02T18:57:00.000-07:00I understand completely (its tashia again).I conti...I understand completely (its tashia again).<BR/>I continued graduate level classe a week after I had my son in 06 and went back to work at 8 weeks to the day, not cause I wanted to,it was a necessity financially. Luckily the hubby and I worked opposite shifts so we never needed a sitter until Aedan was about a year and it was my sister in law and her friend. So it wasn't as hard.<BR/>I was home with Kyra for 5 months this time around. While financially we ate through our 7,000 savings as a result cause jobs are just not easy to come by around here apparently I am grateful for the experience. I am much more bonded to her than I was with my son and I also credit that to not pulling my hair out pumping and giving her breastmilk like I did with my son but I still do have alot of mommy guilty about that choice. So now that I am working only part time, I have my days, especially when she cried the whole time I was gone at first. Thankfully she is with someone I have known several months before I went to work.<BR/>I also credit that extra attention to my daughter blazing through her milestones but she is also very independent while my son is more clingy (probably cause daddy is never around)<BR/>You will adjust. If you plan on pumping at work take a picture of E to place with your pump to help with the let down.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7102244124088980030.post-90051395867868393972008-10-01T20:13:00.000-07:002008-10-01T20:13:00.000-07:00They are only that small for so long and it's toug...They are only that small for so long and it's tough to spend so much time with them and then have to go back to work. I got to stay home with mine for a long time, but I cant even imagine having to go back to work. **hugs** I'm sorry... :(Robynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08020533325880587046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7102244124088980030.post-68926225757414207832008-10-01T18:59:00.000-07:002008-10-01T18:59:00.000-07:00Awww, Sweet Friend. What a trial for you, but wha...Awww, Sweet Friend. What a trial for you, but what a blessing to have had this time with him. I hope that someday there will be a way for you to be home with them!Heidi Tottenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09275976895033550120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7102244124088980030.post-35220643623852528582008-10-01T16:52:00.000-07:002008-10-01T16:52:00.000-07:00*sigh*... *wipes tear from eye*... I know exactly ...*sigh*... *wipes tear from eye*... I know exactly how you feel about leaving and going to work. I feel like I've formed a new life with my baby in it, and I can't bare to think about leaving him all day with someone else. We're trying to work it out now so that I only have to work part time so I can be with him most of the day, but even that I feel guilty about. I don't want to leave him at all. If you ever need someone to cry with... I'll be right there doing it with you, lol. <BR/><BR/>-KatieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com